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So overall these days would you say that you are very happy, pretty happy, or not too happy?

This was a question posed to many Americans for a study which has been going on since 1972.  According to the study, which has not been peer reviewed, America's happiness rating has fallen dramatically from 1972 through 2018.

What does that say about our current state of affairs and life?  Are married people happier than the rest of us?

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Olga Kahzan, TheAtlantic(dot)com
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For most people, their relationship with their spouse is one of the most important bonds in their life. It provides a deep love and connection, someone to share experiences with, and new opportunities to help grow into a better version of yourself with the love and support of a partner. 

So many times, this relationship can be threatened.  In this article therapists were asked to name some of the biggest threats to married people’s happiness. 

Would you be surprised to know that the Theft of Joy (the constant comparison of your relationship to others) and constantly trying to “measure up” is extremely dangerous to the health of your overall relationship?

It’s called The Theft Of Joy for a reason.

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Kelsey Borresen, HuffPost Life/Yahoo!News
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Although finances are usually a primary cause of difficulty, conflict and possible divorce, this article indicates that the number one conflict for over 46% of divorcing couples was surprisingly career choices. 

This article highlights the 7 top reasons of conflicts for divorcing couples. 

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Aditi Shrikant, CNBC(dot)com
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High on the list of reasons couples divorce is financial conflict and deep financial stress. 

One way to avoid this is to do things that avoid arguments over money, one of which would be not to have a shared checking and/or savings account.  Many people have joint account to avoid an estate process or access to funds if a spouse disappears, is incapacitated or God forbid dies.  However, managing money together can often cause stress, especially if the spending habits of one wreaks havoc for the other. 

Further, many couples do not have frank, open conversations about finances, estate planning or even just how they view and feel about money.  You would be surprised the differences people have in their relationship with/to money.  Again, having open, honest communication early on is helpful.

If you have any questions, please feel free to contact me. 

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Caitlyn Moorhead, gobankingrates(dot)com
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38 million adults live alone in the United States.  The number of single person households has reached a record high according to census data.  Experts say that this part of the population is likely to climb dramatically in coming decades.  More older Americans are living alone and that is expected to increase as Baby Boomers age. 

One of the major factors found for seniors living alone appears to be a trend from rising divorce rates among adults over 50.  The “gray divorce” has become much more prominent where it now represents a third of all people getting divorced. 

Even though divorce rates for the overall population are declining, gray divorces are increasing.  The important thing is to go through this process in a much more holistic approach.  If you find yourself in this situation, consider Mediation or Collaborate Divorce.

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Catherine E. Shoichet and Parker Leipzig, CNN
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This is the relationship advice therapists want couples to keep top of mind.  Although every couple and their circumstances are different, it appears that there is some common universal marriage advice given by therapists.

Avoiding conflict often creates further conflict down the road.  So, don't be afraid to face conflict and explore it...it will be much more productive.  It's also important to stay curious and ask questions.  In other words, be interested in your partner’s life...what is important to them and what is going on in their lives?

One of the points is very interesting.  Therapists seem to believe that all arguments that we may have with one another boil down to one essential element:  basically wanting or needing to be sure that our partner will be there for us.  What needs are we really expressing through these conflicts and arguments?  Discovering that can ultimately bring a more intimate and binding connection. 

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Jeremy Brown, Fatherly(dot)com
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Most people don’t know this, but the largest animal farm sanctuary is located right here in New York.

This is an incredible place, especially if you love animals.  Watkins Glen Animal Sanctuary is home to more than 800 rescue farm animals on nearly 300 acres.  This is a great place to go for a family outing or just to get away from it all.  It even has a place for visitors to stay a day or two in cottages or cabins.

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Christy Articola, OnlyInYourState(dot)com
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