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Although finances are usually a primary cause of difficulty, conflict and possible divorce, this article indicates that the number one conflict for over 46% of divorcing couples was surprisingly career choices. 

This article highlights the 7 top reasons of conflicts for divorcing couples. 

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Aditi Shrikant, CNBC(dot)com
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High on the list of reasons couples divorce is financial conflict and deep financial stress. 

One way to avoid this is to do things that avoid arguments over money, one of which would be not to have a shared checking and/or savings account.  Many people have joint account to avoid an estate process or access to funds if a spouse disappears, is incapacitated or God forbid dies.  However, managing money together can often cause stress, especially if the spending habits of one wreaks havoc for the other. 

Further, many couples do not have frank, open conversations about finances, estate planning or even just how they view and feel about money.  You would be surprised the differences people have in their relationship with/to money.  Again, having open, honest communication early on is helpful.

If you have any questions, please feel free to contact me. 

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Caitlyn Moorhead, gobankingrates(dot)com
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38 million adults live alone in the United States.  The number of single person households has reached a record high according to census data.  Experts say that this part of the population is likely to climb dramatically in coming decades.  More older Americans are living alone and that is expected to increase as Baby Boomers age. 

One of the major factors found for seniors living alone appears to be a trend from rising divorce rates among adults over 50.  The “gray divorce” has become much more prominent where it now represents a third of all people getting divorced. 

Even though divorce rates for the overall population are declining, gray divorces are increasing.  The important thing is to go through this process in a much more holistic approach.  If you find yourself in this situation, consider Mediation or Collaborate Divorce.

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Catherine E. Shoichet and Parker Leipzig, CNN
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This is the relationship advice therapists want couples to keep top of mind.  Although every couple and their circumstances are different, it appears that there is some common universal marriage advice given by therapists.

Avoiding conflict often creates further conflict down the road.  So, don't be afraid to face conflict and explore it...it will be much more productive.  It's also important to stay curious and ask questions.  In other words, be interested in your partner’s life...what is important to them and what is going on in their lives?

One of the points is very interesting.  Therapists seem to believe that all arguments that we may have with one another boil down to one essential element:  basically wanting or needing to be sure that our partner will be there for us.  What needs are we really expressing through these conflicts and arguments?  Discovering that can ultimately bring a more intimate and binding connection. 

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Jeremy Brown, Fatherly(dot)com
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Most people don’t know this, but the largest animal farm sanctuary is located right here in New York.

This is an incredible place, especially if you love animals.  Watkins Glen Animal Sanctuary is home to more than 800 rescue farm animals on nearly 300 acres.  This is a great place to go for a family outing or just to get away from it all.  It even has a place for visitors to stay a day or two in cottages or cabins.

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Christy Articola, OnlyInYourState(dot)com
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While the temperatures have been skyrocketing this summer, this has also been the hottest summer for divorce. 

Many prominent people and top celebrities have announced their Divorce/Separation in the news and social media this summer, including Canada’s prime minister, Justin Trudeau, who posted an announcement on Instagram that he and his wife would be divorcing. 

Summer can create an empty nest syndrome, where parents, while their children are at camp or college, realize they have grown apart.  I also found this interesting; paradoxically as many weddings occur in the summer, people attending these weddings sometimes find themselves comparing their own crumbling relationship to new couples while witnessing a beautiful wedding.

Other factors would include the uncertain times and economics that we find ourselves in today. 

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Heather Schwedel, slate(dot)com
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Sometimes we overlook or don’t know absolute gems in our own back yard.  This sounds like an absolutely divine hiking trail that is off the beaten path and would be wonderful for some grounding down time with nature.  If you don’t get to it this Summer, I also think it would be lovely in the Fall. 

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of John Williams, onlyinyourstate(dot)com
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Unfortunately, many people face the traumatic and life altering event of losing a spouse.  Although this is extremely overwhelming, eventually some decide to find love again.  According to the study mentioned in this article, 61% of men and 19% of women find a new relationship or remarry within 25 months of the loss of their spouse. 

Remarrying later in life can be complicated and has its own financial concerns.  This article shares a check list developed by a senior financial advisor after encountering numerous questions from widowed spouses.  He offers general guidelines and a check list of what a surviving spouse should do in the first 24 months and what items to consider depending upon your age.

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Kerri Fivecoat-Campbell, marketwatch(dot)com
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