Dozens of relationship therapists and researchers were recently interviewed on which phrases successful couples say to each other. Most experts agree that couples who thrive consistently express empathy, boundaries, and a desire to find common ground.
There are some phrases, though, that even those in healthy partnerships don’t say. That’s because they are less intuitive or feel more selfish than “I appreciate you” or “Help me understand this.”
Even our most uncomfortable emotions need to be voiced, says Lisa Marie Bobby, psychologist and founder of Growing Self Counseling & Coaching in Denver. “Clear, respectful communication feels good for everyone,” she says.
Here are four phrases people don’t say enough to their partners.
Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Aditi Shrikant, cnbc(dot)com
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