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Proud To Be One Of The Featured Speakers At "How Every LGBTQ+ Person Should Plan Ahead"

Posted On: May 06, 2026

The Nassau County Bar Association and The Bristal at Garden City invite you to a presentation featuring guidance on finances, estate planning, and more for LGBTQ+ adults.

Enjoy dinner and an expert discussion during an informative and engaging evening focused on the topics that matter most, where you'll get answers to important questions like:

  • What documents should you have in place if a partner is hospitalized or passes away?
  • What are your legal rights as a couplemarried or unmarried?
  • What is the current outlook for same-sex marriage?
  • How can you protect your finances, assets, and future?

Learn all this and more from a panel of experienced attorneys.

Event Info:

Wednesday, May 20 6:00PM - 8:00PM
The Bristal at Garden City
1001 Axinn Avenue
Garden City, NY 11530

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11 Behaviors Only Found In Happily Married Husbands

Posted On: May 03, 2026

There are all kinds of behaviors and qualities that make a good partnership, all of which are different depending on the people and circumstances. From a husband being willing to be influenced by his partner to prioritizing quality time during the mundane seasons of life, certain priorities make all the difference for a couple's well-being and happiness.

However, on an individual level, there are also behaviors only found in happily married husbands. They craft happiness from being present and leaning into the hard parts of marriage, and it's that effort that truly transforms the relationship for the better.

Here are 11 behaviors only found in happily married husbands...

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Zayda Slabberkoom, yourtango(dot)com
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When Is Divorce a Solution to Marriage Problems?

Posted On: April 27, 2026

Building and sustaining a loving marriage is one of the most—maybe even the most—important life focus. Why? Much research has established that marriage generally brings major benefits to participants' lives. Married folks, statistically, have better physical health, enjoy more feelings of well-being (emotional health), and even end up better off financially.

Still, when marriage partners argue, engage in behaviors that their spouse finds unacceptable, or repeatedly bump up against differences that cause ongoing tensions, the conflicts can result in a marriage that creates more stress than satisfaction.

With that in mind, Is divorce ever a legitimate part of a win-win solution? Here's some current thinking on that question.

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Jessica Schrader, psychologytoday(dot)com
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11 Things People In Bad Marriages Do When They're Alone That They Never Tell Anyone About

Posted On: April 19, 2026

Considering that miserable, bad marriages are often fueled by a fear of loneliness, family obligations, and history, it's not surprising that many couples and partners feel entirely isolated and alone most of the time. They're grappling with a million inner feelings and complex situations, from shame to disconnection, that make it impossible for them to feel like anyone could understand what they're going through.

Even the small things people in bad marriages do when they're alone that they never tell anyone about don't have to be fueled by guilt and shame. So, if that's you, let this be your reminder that you're not a bad person because you're in a bad relationship. Your circumstances don't have to define you. Let them remind you of what you deserve and what needs to be said, instead of stewing in blame, resentment, and guilt forever.

Here are 11 things people in bad marriages do when they're alone that they never tell anyone about.

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Zayda Slabbekoorn, yourtango(dot)com
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Relationship Expert Dr. Julie Gottman Says The 'Right Partner' Will Always Check These 3 Boxes

Posted On: April 12, 2026

A question that often lingers in the minds of those dating is whether their partner is the right person.

There might be a lot of personal deal breakers to figure this out, but world-renowned psychologist and researcher Dr. Julie Gottman shared three reflections to consider:  interaction, respect, and reliability.

Elaborating on how to find out about these factors, Gottman noted that they can be tested and checked in everyday settings. 

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Angelina C, Dsouza, scoop.upworthy.com
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These 'Four Horsemen' Can Predict If A Couple Will Divorce

Posted On: April 08, 2026

You might’ve heard of the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse, as depicted in the Bible’s Book of Revelation. But are you familiar with the Four Horsemen of Divorce?

It’s a concept developed by psychologists John and Julie Gottman to describe four communication patterns that can quietly ― and sometimes not so quietly ― erode a relationship: criticism, contempt, defensiveness and stonewalling.


Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Caroline Bologna, huffpost(dot)com
Royalty-free photo courtesy of Google's Gemini

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Study Of 3,000 Couples Found The More Expensive The Wedding, The Less ‘Happily Ever After'

Posted On: March 29, 2026

Though they don’t have to be, weddings can be costly affairs. According to The Knot, the average cost of a wedding in 2025 was $33,000. Of course, a wedding can cost as little as $50 for a marriage license and simple courthouse nuptials and go all the way up into the millions for the rich and famous, so an average amount doesn’t mean that’s what most average people are spending. But that huge range in costs raises the question: Is there any correlation between what couples spend to get married and a longer-lasting marriage?

Turns out couples who save together, stay together...

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Tod Perry, upworthy(dot)com
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These Couples Have Been Married 40+ Years - Here's Their Advice For A Long, Happy Relationship

Posted On: March 22, 2026

Couples who have been married 40, 50, or even 60 years were asked a simple question: What relationship advice would you give to your younger selves?

The participants ranged from a mid-60s couple who had just celebrated their 40th anniversary to a 99-year-old who had just celebrated 66 years of happiness with his bride.

This advice captures more than 500 years of earned wisdom from these beautiful relationships...

Here are 25 pieces of relationship advice that everyone needs to hear...

Selected excerpt(s) and linked article courtesy of Sahil Bloom, cnbc(dot)com
Royalty-free photo courtesy of Google's Gemini

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